Posted By Westfield Health

Posted on20th November 2020

(updated on 14th October 2026)

The stats on men’s health tell a striking story. Studies in 2026 show that men account for 75% of suicide rates in the UK, and 12.5% of men report living with a common mental health disorder. On top of significant rates of men’s mental health concerns, researchers have also found a drastic discrepancy in men seeking help for mental and physical health concerns compared to women.

NHS data shows that men only account for 36% of NHS talking therapy referrals, and around 65% of men report avoiding GP appointments for both mental and physical health concerns

Despite this, many men’s health issues can be treated effectively if caught early. The Movember campaign takes place every November to increase awareness of prostate and testicular cancer, men’s mental health and suicide prevention. When life gets stressful, we all need a reminder to look after ourselves. Often, a simple conversation is the first step towards saving a life.

Are men less likely to go to the doctor?

Time and again, studies find that men are less likely than women to visit their GP or pharmacy. The gender gap in consulting rates is most pronounced between the ages of 16 and 60 years old. In fact, women aged 20-40 visit their GP twice as often as men the same age. Men in this age group are the most likely to be working full time, and perhaps feel that they cannot (or should not) take time off work to visit the doctor.

With both physical and mental health problems, it’s important to seek help early. Many of us avoid visiting the doctor’s because we fear the worst, yet still put on a brave face to our loved ones. The easiest way to reduce this strain is to open up and reach out for support.

There are a number of reasons why men may be reluctant to seek professional support for mental or physical health concerns, and many are unique to the individual and should never be assumed. Examples could include: 

Fear of bad news

Fear of bad or scary news about their health can be a major deterrent to seeking professional healthcare. However, early diagnosis and intervention play a huge role in treatment for many conditions. For example, a conversation about depression, stress, or anxiety concerns can be the first step on the treatment pathways that can improve quality of life in the future. Early diagnosis for physical health conditions such as cancer or heart conditions can also significantly improve survival rates with treatment.

Embarrassment

A recent survey showed that 22% of men cite the perceived stigma as their primary reason for not seeking professional support for their mental health concerns. This social barrier can play a major role in why men decide to avoid medical professionals, instead choosing to struggle in silence.

Lack of time

2026 UK surveys have found that men in the UK work an average of 41 hours per week, 4.4 more then the UK average for all working adults. In a 2023 survey, 24% of men reported inconvenient GP open hours are theur key reason to avoid seeking support from their GP

Learning to help yourself first

The longer we put off a doctor’s visit, the more tempting it is to self-diagnose. It’s no secret that many of us Google our symptoms, but online diagnoses make it easy to catastrophise and make our worrying worse. On the other extreme, some people dismiss their health problems as ‘not a big deal’ and hope it goes away on its own, waiting until they’re in extreme pain before seeking help.

When struggling to confront a health problem, remember the in-flight safety guidance: put on your own mask before assisting others. If you’re worried that a health problem might impact your ability to work or care for your family, it’s important to catch it early so you can get back to your best as soon as possible.

If you’re worried about prostate or testicular cancer, these issues may be particularly intimidating to raise with your doctor. It’s common to worry about examinations that may seem embarrassing, especially if you’re not sure whether your doctor will be male or female. Remember you can usually request a male doctor for your appointment if this makes you feel more comfortable. The most important step is to make that first phone call.

Accessing men’s health support

Free healthcare resources are just a call or click away. It only takes one moment of courage to get the help you need. For quick advice, try:

Westfield Health customers can access fast support through our DoctorLine service or 24 Hour Advice and Information Line. Your employer may also be able to offer you a place on a men’s health webinar or health calendar module.

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